Any one of you has been so desparate about seing their children? How did you manage more access?
I see my children once a week for a few hours and alternate week-end. before seprarating I had given up my job to look after them. Now they are with their dad and I feel like I don't exist anymore. When they play, dad is mentioned all the time and mum is just not here. I have no idea how they are as I see them so little; when I notice a behavioural problem I can't do anything about it as I do see them so little. I have no involvement with school and I am more educated and able to support them through it than my ex. I feel so useless, erased from their life.
Court hasn't solved anything and it's been nearly a year. They seem to think that it does not matter if mum is absent.
I am getting so frustrated and sad and i am considering not returning the children until a suitable arrangement is agreed. Is it completely foolish and is it going to get me into trouble?
I feel so desperate!
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little contact...children are becoming estranged..what if I don't return them?
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lavendervision · 10/01/2013 13:56
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