Hiya, thought I'd post here, seemed the most relevant.
My sister has 2 children. She separated from her partner some years ago now. The children live with their father most of the time, but my sister only has a relationship with one of her children.
We, as other family members (grandparents and aunt, that's me) hardly ever get to see her eldest. He's 13 now (younger is 11).
We can't see him as my sister doesn't spend time with him and she goes mad at the thought of us seeing him.
When her and her partner split, her partner told my mum that she could go over at any time to visit both children. She hasn't been over as my sister gets cross saying that she doesn't get an invite.
But if the father and the child are willing to see us, would it be right to arrange a visit? With or without the "blessing" of my sister?
Please understand, I can't imagine how painful it must be for my sister not having a relationship with one of her children. I do feel very sorry for her, but I don't want him to miss out on him having a relationship with the rest of us...if its something that he is happy with. I also don't want us to miss out on a relationship. Although he's not our son, he is our grandchild/nephew...he's family.
I thought I'd come here to see what your reaction/response is to this, as I know what a sensitive subject this can be.
Thanks
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NoSoggyBottoms · 20/11/2012 22:11
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