Just planning ahead really - how did you tell your children? What words did you use? I have read various books including the Relate one and they all advise telling the children together, but how do you do this when there is so much anger? In my case I want a divorce due to unreasonable behaviour (DH's alcohol abuse/DH using "extramarital affair" websites) but despite this I want him to maintain a relationship with the DD's and not badmouth him to them. Equally I want them to understand and not wonder why - on the surface at least everything seems "normal" at the moment so it will likely come as a shock. Would really appreciate any thoughts. Thanks.
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Form of words to use when talking to the children about divorce?
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teenyweenytadpole · 04/11/2012 21:37
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