I am totally unorganised. My mind just doesn't seem to work that way! I am heading for a divorce and everyone's telling em to get all details of bills, expenditure, mortgage, etc etc. ready but the stress of having to divorce is making doing this even harder than it would be normally. And normally I'd struggle to get all paperwork in order anyway.
What do I need to have to show lawyers and how the f&%$k should I organise myself? All those people out there who are great at filing and keeping things in order give me your tips. I am tempted to go out and blow a bomb on fancy filing solutions but not sure that would help me. It might just be displacement activity.
At the mo all papers are stuffed in drawers and I seem to have deep seated phobia of looking at figures/numbers. I work self employed and I manage that well, but personally I have a creative bent which I'm hoping excuses my messy filing!
And BTW ex DH will be a complete nightmare to divorce, not to mention there are nightmares relating to DS and access , so I need to be on the ball.
Wail!!
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frazzil · 27/08/2012 14:00
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