I was just wondering what people's experiences were.
I am about to move with my children out of a rented home, my STBXH left us 5 months ago. He's taken things out of the house that were "his" but left quite a bit behind too.
He is demanding x, y, z when I move out (kitchen goods, sofa, table/chairs etc etc). What have other people done regarding splitting things. I am on benefits (as I was a SAHM), he is about to start a very well paying job, he is currently refusing to pay the % maintenance he should come his first pay packet(s) as he has "immediate debts", and things are not overly amicable. My fear is that I can't afford to buy pots/pans/tables/chairs etc but obviously am 100% time caring for the children as he is not that interested in them. He also is currently of the mind that even though we have a joint tenancy, he will not give me any of the deposit. He was very financially abusive in our marriage, and is also demanding half of gifts he bought be (jewelry/camera - birthday stuff).
It is all so "unimportant" but I am finding it hard not just to give it all to him for an easy life. But seriously, he wants a broken children's slide and a magimix. He doesn't even want the kids and doesn't know how to turn a magimix on.
Please tell me it gets easier.
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Splitting "assets" on separation
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daffydowndilly · 12/07/2012 18:20
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