Hi, my husband and i separated 6 months ago, ive been unhappy for a long time and put a brave face on for our dc, i couldnt take it anymore and asked him to leave to give me space to think. i told him i didnt love him anymore and hadnt done for a long time. i was very confused and became depressed with it all, just wanted time to mysel to think, i did manage to get him out the house but the last 6 months have been hell! think im more misreble now now than i ever was. he rings me texts me all the time begging to take me back, turns up at my house crying then shouting at me, accusing me of sleeping with other men. its constant.
i will admit 5 weeks after we separated i got into a relationship with someone who i fell for in a very big way. my husband found out by hacking into my facebook and now thinks i cheated on him. (which i didnt). The relationship ended as the man i was seeing could cope with my husband on the scene so much. My husband drinks all the time, blames me for ruining his and the childrens lives, his stalked me at work. now is hanging around at work freatening on facebook his going to sort out the man i was seeing which is more stress.
I didnt know how i felt when i wanted it over just wanted some time to think but now i cant even bear to look at him. his made my life hell. part of me feels i should give him another chance for his and our childrens sake but i really dont love him anymore and his actions have proved that, his freatened to end his life so many times now and i know its a horrible thing to say but i dont listen to all that anymore it happens to often now. i did get the police invovled at the begining due to harrasement but im reluctant to do it again because i dont want social services to get invovled and have them questioning my children. I just want him out of my life now. Is it all too soon?
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i want a divorce after 6 months, is this too soon?
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jaynel · 09/07/2012 12:00
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