I have an over whelming sense of doom and feel sick.
STBEXh moved out 3 months ago but has only been in his own place a week. We put off telling them till he had a house to show them.
They are 5 and 3. exh has come over to see them as much as possible. After work and both days of every weekend. But clearly he's not there when we get up every morning and he leaves in the evening at some point. Either before they get in bath or when I'm about to start story time.
DS 5 has asked a few times where Daddy is and why he's always going out. But I've been able to brush off the question easily.
So now there's no need to put it off and it feels like a massive deal. STBEXH and I argued last night and I really don't want to spend a weekend with him. But, putting the children first, we must remain calm and present a sort of united front.
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Today we tell the kids. Hold my hand please!
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Shybairns · 07/07/2012 07:43
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