Briefly, we have completed form Es, had our 1st court appt and are now following court directions before heading back to court in sept for FDR hearing.
One of the court directions was to get the family home and ex's new property formally valued. Sounds straightforward? No - ex legal team proposed 2 inappropriate agents for the area - they simply dont cover the area where I live or the type of house. So I proposed alternatives and provided evidence as to why they might be better choices (ie many similar houses on the books in my village). These choices have now been rejected (with unpleasant digs from ex's legal team) and also threats.
If we cannot agree then we have to get the court to decide. My barrister was furious (partly with me) that this matter couldnt be easily settled, avoiding cost. Fair enough on the cost but I am being bullied by ex (on many other matters) and did want to stand my ground to show that I get a say in my divorce too. I'm not overly confident in my solicitor - they write very long winded letters but which also seem to contain inaccuracies. I had to hire them to help me with some of the earlier hassle I was getting from ex and his legal team.
Is this common? And is there anything I can do?
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Formal Valuation of property for divorce - ex choosing inappropriate agents. Any advice?
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veryconfusedatthemoment · 04/07/2012 01:32
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