Want to divorce my (emotionally, verbally, mentally and financially abusive) 'D'H but have no money for solicitor (dont qualify for LA) and am afraid basically, of living with him for the duration of the divorce.
He has frozen our joint bank account so I am forced to work to support myself, and on occasions, my (adult) children. I am paying for food and cleaning for the home. (Other bills still are met from the joint account but he has threatened to cut off the utilities, as these are in his name and I cant afford to pay them myself).
He is living off his private pension and has hardly been home for the past week, I do not know where he is or who he is with, he has virtually moved out.
Also, we are fast approaching the point where we cannot afford to stay in the property and it needs to be sold. However, he has done no jobs for years and it is cluttered and needs decorating.
This is just going round and round in my head. I just dont know where to start. I dont know how I can make it marketable. I have nowhere to put the clutter, it isnt stuff that can just be thrown away and neither can I afford to put it into storage. I reckon the state of the place has reduced the price by approaching £20 k....
I am afaid of repurcussions if I try to start divorce proceedings but I cant carry on like this much longer. I cant sleep for worry.
I dont know what I am expecting from posting this, maybe I just cant see the wood from the trees and someone with more experience can suggest something that I have failed to see.
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destinyorfate · 07/01/2012 06:13
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