We're expecting our first child in November. We were discussing how we would split the night duties - my wife thinks we should take alternate nights, I suggested she takes weeknights and I do the weekends.
The reason I suggested that split is that I'm a developer and I know, from having done a part time degree for the last five years whilst working full-time, that sleep deprivation can have a really nasty effect on my ability to do my job. Having a newborn will be much worse, but I want to do as much for my wife and the baby as I can without becoming incapable of doing my job - although some impairment is going to be inevitable.
My wife thinks it would be unfair for her to do more nights than me. I'd be grateful for any thoughts at all on this.
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Newborn sleep deprivation - sharing the load
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martin42 · 17/04/2014 05:07
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