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help make anniversary special.....

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JokersGiggle · 25/03/2014 22:35

Want to know what I can do to make an anniversary special? Any ideas from a mans perspective? what would you like to be surprised with?

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JokersGiggle · 26/03/2014 07:38

Anyone???

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Catnuzzle · 26/03/2014 07:41

It depends what anniversary it is....

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JokersGiggle · 26/03/2014 10:52

Its our 4 year one. last year it was completely shit as I was MC at 15 Weeks the day of the anniversary, so we pretty much skipped it.
Want to show him that I love him and he's still really special to me.
So I've already got planned tickets to a gig in London.
He will get home at 4am on our anniversary.
I've booked in waxing for me and nail stuff. Got some really sexy stuff to wear.
So.....any good positions that feel great for guys?
or is going sex crazy not a good idea?

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JokersGiggle · 26/03/2014 20:10

Come on! I'm really stuck here!

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TDada · 27/03/2014 12:13

Where do you live? Five star hotel at weekend plus dinner. At the top end of the scale there is the dinner experience at Le Manoir. Will cost you nearly 1k.

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 13:48

He works shifts Sad so we only have 14 hours together on the day. his Holiday application was turned Down. So going away Paris in the summer. I need something we can do at home.

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loveulotslikejellytots · 27/03/2014 14:07

Last year DH ANSI were both working, so I just cooked his favourite dinner, he got us some DVD's and made us a fab pudding. Just a nice evening in enjoying the few hours we did have together.

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BreakingDad77 · 27/03/2014 14:13

Get him to sit in seat at the end of the bed, maybe blindfold get him to explore you/the underwear, maybe silk tie his forearms, pleasure him, lay back on bed, little diy while he watches bound, then loosen him and let him join you on the bed, pleasure you, full sex?

Woman on top so he can see everything possibly though he might want to just bend you over at that point?

Maybe some roleplay/outfits very person dependent though it is a marmite thing!

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BreakingDad77 · 27/03/2014 14:14

Tickets to his sports team/ favourite band good choices.

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 14:17

I just want something special....
I'm doing his fav dinner. followed by fruit Salad and his fav desert.
Think I'll just have to wing the rest of it.
we chill out watching DVDs often so don't really want to do that.
Just really want to make up for last year.
I know he has got a surprise for me.....

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 14:20

Good idea with the blind fold! Not done that before, can't wait to try it!
I've got tickets to see his fav guitarists Smile
any other great ideas you would like to share?!

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 14:28

Bending me over doesn't often work lol. I'm 5ft 2 and he's 6ft 3 and the height difference makes it difficult (sorry tmi!)
So any other sexy suggestions need to take into account the height difference. Other facts - i'm flexible, he isn't. He's very strong (know any positions where he could hold me up?)
The internet has some good suggestions but most look impossible, so i'm looking for tried-and-tested ones Smile

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 14:35

Also needs to take into account that I'll need time to get out of a corset at some point, I can do it in a sexy way but it takes a few mins (feel the need to point out that i'm a size 6.... people normally think your fat when you mention a corset)

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BreakingDad77 · 27/03/2014 14:51

Why does the corset need to come off, it can be quite sexy in itself??

Some men clothing does nothing for others it can be a real turn on!

With the size difference would he enjoy being dominated or taking the lead?

Nothing too complex is key to not spoil the moment, under your orders he could unpick the corset?

you could be on top- reverse/cowgirl him supporting you, gets to see a lot of whats going on. He must have some positions he falls into generally?

I get leg cramps sometimes these days!

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 15:42

Haha!
Haha corset has to come off at some point otherwise I can't bend and he likes to be able get at everything easily lol. But getting him to do it would be good.
normally he takes charge, I sometimes start out in charge but as he can just throw me around he pretty much always ends up in control in the end......
Our Usual is him standing with me pressed up against a wall (or mirror Blush ) followed by lots of rolling around on the floor/bed lol.
He likes some kinky stuff but if it goes wrong then it could ruin things, do I take the risk and initiate that?

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BreakingDad77 · 27/03/2014 15:46

Well I don't see where you not coercing him to ravage you could go wrong?

Maybe just push it a little to make it a bit different, I'm sure you will be able to pick up the vibe as to wether he is getting into it?

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 16:26

I'm sure he'll be into it. I just don't know what I want "it" to be! What would a guy like? Kinky and hot? Or slow and sensual?
I've lost my confidence a bit........

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 16:29

If I go kinky and he spanks a bit hard he feels guilty and stops. but I don't want to go slow and him to get bored.

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BreakingDad77 · 27/03/2014 17:45

Thats what safe words are for!

Start off slow and build up the scene would be best - no?

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 18:03

But he takes it that if I use the safe word that he needs to stop completely, not just slow down or pause. I keep saying that it doesn't mean stop. But he feels really guilty that it got to the point that I had to use the word Sad . Grrrr why is sex so difficult?!
Might just go for positions that let him get a good look and save the spanking for another time....maybe.
Might just bite him a bit.......
We've never done 69 before - should I try that? Or does that seem like i'm trying to rush things by multi tasking?

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 18:05

I should add that we tried it years ago but I keep loosing fucus so we gave up....

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 20:09

I've just ordered a "love egg" - any experiences of it?

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BreakingDad77 · 27/03/2014 20:24

True lol you wouldn't think it would be hard. Maybe not this time but maybe future goal of working on the easing back not stop, he should kinda start of slow anyway. And it's not always about the level as there is the expectation of it, instead of the spank you caress. Don't want to be seen as teaching or u might bruise his ego?

Focus during the 69?

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JokersGiggle · 27/03/2014 21:18

Most the time its me that begs for not starting soft and just going for it Blush so I guess that bits my fault lol. wouldn't want to risk his ego......
But how do you focus during 69?! Honestly I stand more of a chance of holding a conversation in Russian than I do taking 69 to the end! (and i'm not keen on "the end" if you know what I mean.)

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TalisaMaegyr · 27/03/2014 21:34

This is like soft porn.

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