Warning, this is very full on. . .
I cannot have sex with my Husband anymore. He is wonderful, sexy to look at, caring, funny, sensitive and all the rest. Im very lucky to have him. Our life hasn't always been perfect, we have had many peaks and troughs over the last 8 years. However, our sex life is grim.
We saw a counsellor today and I confessed that I was sexually abused (not raped) from a very young age. This was the first time I had the courage to say it out loud, although my Husband had a hunch all along (hints during drunken conversations, reacting oddly when physically close, only having sex when inebriated).
There are 2 things here; although it wasn't conscious on my part, would you feel betrayed if you were led to believe your partner/wife enjoyed sex with you when she never did? Also, how would you cope if you knew it is unlikely that she will ever truly enjoy sex with you? Would this be a deal breaker?
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I cannot get intimate with my Husband - WWYD
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missmysexybody · 28/02/2014 22:34
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