..other than this person was a cocky so and so?
Out with a friend at the weekend. Was drinking and merry and so forth
Am happily married with dh, just girls drunken evening, no being daft or whatever... anyway, my friend sees some people from work so we were just stood with them. Chatting to people, and a bloke turned and looked at me and said 'So, I can see you're getting over your anorexia really well' meaning i'm a heffer (size 16, actually!)
I wasn't talking to him at this point, we weren't in mid conversation, he just turned and said it to me! How rude?? Is this what blokes think and act like?
I thought I looked ok, I don't have an issue with my size(I had a really plain minimal shift dress and patent brogues on so no, er, how can I put this, fat slapper dressing )
I did smile and say 'That's really kind, thanks for asking, I'm doing really well, you seem to be coping with your fear of heights ok (he was same height as me... not v tall) and he seemed to try to shrug it off then..
Do all blokes when you're out just throw someone a glance and think 'No way - fat / plain/ ugly / crap hair'
Think it just caught me off guard and am a bit taken aback by the rudeness!!
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had a bit of a snarky comment when I was out... blokes point of view?
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JoyceDivision · 19/02/2014 22:32
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