I'm all over the place with this one... so all level-headed advice/opinions welcome please!
I began dating someone a few months ago and very early on she told me she had already decided to do IVF with a donor. We talked about it and agreed to see how things went with us. I've been single for a few years and really, really like her. While realising it was an unusal situation to say the least, I was so happy to have met her. She seemed pretty keen on the idea too.
Anyway, soon after the treatment started, inevitably I suppose, we became more distant. I appreciate she's had a tough time with god knows how many hormones pumped into her. I tried to be supportive, but communication went rapidly downhill. I blame myself for the way things have turned out and wish I could do more for her. We're friends now rather than anything else, but I still have very strong feelings for her and want to do anything I can for her.
My question is, what should I do? Am I stupid to have thought we could ever have had a chance as a couple?
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hornswoggled · 27/01/2014 23:11
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