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two miscarriages later but now trying again...

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queenie1 · 26/03/2008 14:43

In the past 8 months I have had two miscarriages. Left devastated. Planning to start trying again this month but so scared it will happen again. Is there anything I could or should be doing to make this time round a success?

New to site - welcome your thoughts.

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belgo · 26/03/2008 14:46

Sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I also had two miscarriages over about 6 months. Straight after the second miscarriage I became pregnant again, and am now past the 12 week mark, and there are no problems.

Try and stay hopeful, and do things to take your made of of it.

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belgo · 26/03/2008 14:47

'take your made of of it.' that doesn't make any sense!

'take your mind off of it'

{smile]

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Monobrow · 26/03/2008 14:51

Hello Queenie, I dont know the answer to your question, but am so sorry for your losses. I have one dd, have mc'd once and have been trying for 7 months. I eat healthily, drink very little (couple of glasses at weekends), take regular exercise. Stressed - course I am but what can I do?! I just hope that when I conceive (NOT IF!), it will last. Good Luck x

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TillyScoutsmum · 26/03/2008 14:54

Hello queenie... I also had 2 mc's within 12 months. It was third time lucky for me though and I now have a dd who is almost 1

I didn't do anything differently (because I hadn't done anything wrong in the first place but at the time, I did feel very guilty and thought I was to blame in some way..)

I tried to relax (ha !) and knowing that if I had a 3rd mc at least I would then be referred for further investigation on the NhS. I know that's little comfort but I just wanted to know why it kept happening..

Good luck x

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Flibbertyjibbet · 26/03/2008 14:56

The best thing you can be doing is just relax.
I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and in the following year I had two late periods - I am usually very regular and had pg symptoms but wanted to wait to do a pg test so I will never know whether those were early miscarriages or not
What I'm trying to say is that I may have had 3mc and went on to have 2 little boys 16m apart.

I didn't do anything in particular, I think sometimes your body just needs a couple of practise runs. Thats what I kept telling myself anyway. I found it impossible to enjoy being pg with my first son, but the hospital were fab and gave me extra scans for reassurance.

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queenie1 · 26/03/2008 16:37

Thanks for your comments. Will try to relax (in ways that don't resort to wine!) and will see what happens. All fingers crossed.