Hi all,
I already have one beautiful little girl thanks to ICSI (2nd attempt) and here we go again trying for number 2....or 3
Two things bother me which hopefully you can help with:
- Do/did you ever worry that you've had your chance and that lightening won't strike twice? It still seems such a miracle that it happened once that I find it hard to accept that it could happen again. I worry that these negative thoughts will be counterproductive.
- Do/did you ever worry that life with an existing young child makes it impossible to "take things easy" during treatment and this will stop it happening again?
We've recently had an unsuccessful FET and I feel I need to get my head straight before we go again. I apologise if I sound ungrateful, I do appreciate how lucky I am to have my daughter. Strange as it may sound, I feel more desperate this time round to have a baby for her sake.
I'd forgotten how hard all this is