40 years old and desperate to TTC my 3rd

[Klaw]

Hello ladies, I'm new to the Conception board here at MN

I have a 13yr old ds and a 2yr old dd by VBAC. We have major financial and property issues which is causing dp to be off sex, but I want our second child together and am getting resentful of these issues, wishing that he could see the urgency, but trying to be patient for him. I conceived both my existing children at the drop of a hat, so am very fortunate and grateful. But can't help worrying that I might not be so lucky next time.

What I really want, I suppose, is for encouragement from ladies here who've had the biological clock ticking in their ears!

I've led a healthy life, don't smoke, don't drink much, am not vastly overweight and apart from the stress we're under, I'm in reasonable shape. I'm also trying to sort out a pelvic floor that get's no excercise via bd just now so that I'm better prepared for pg.

How do I stop this worrying about not getting chance to have what I always thought would be my last child? Oh how I wish we'd done all this sooner so that I could have had as many as I wanted..

[elsieanjoanne]

good luck with your ttc hve you thought about having romantic night with your dp? we are ttc its been 6months of trying so getting hard now!
we have dd who one next week but it took 2years to concieve her so expecting to wait again tbh!
Good luck with your ttc hope you have better luck.
i found favours work when trying to get dp in the mood iykwim!