3 days late- bfn -don't feel right though :(

[buddybull]

Hi ladies;
Anyone else had a similar thing happen? I was ttc for so long (over 4 years as oh has low count) I gave up. Then this month, we actually didn't even bd at the right times from what I remember, and very little as we've both been busy. Anyway, I was due 3 days ago, but normally the day before I start to get the lower back ache and then it comes very quickly after that and all the aches go away.I've had sore boobs for a good 2 weeks now, the intensity varies, one morning it will hurt, then it will go, then hurt a few hours later. I've had lower back pains constantly for the last 4 days and feel like I have butterflies around my abdominal area. I also have had constant nausea for the past 3 days- all day long, almost like I'm constantly gagging and have a terrible feeling in the pit of my belly. Decided to do a clearblue digital and it said not preg. Quite shocked as I'm usually on time and I feel absolutely rubbish! Swear my body is playing tricks on me :(

[buddybull]

I did it an hour ago, did read it's best to use fmu but I thought as I felt so weird I must be pregnant. I'm dreading doing another incase it's negative but feel so strange this month. I'm usually 28 days on the dot, if not a day early..have had maybe one or 2 days where I've been a day late but never 3. Haven't even had any signs of spotting, just a white lotiony cm. Argh I dunno what my body is playing at!

[Seasidedolly]

Could you try another test? Maybe First response, Superdrug own brand or even pound land cheapies are really sensitive.

Best of luck xx

[buddybull]

Will try again in a few days I think. Sorry this is tmi but i sneezed and thought for sure af had arrived but it was lotiony white cm. Boobs aren't as sore now. Hate the waitinf and wondering, if it's af I'd rather she just showed than mess me around :(

[Whatamuddleduck]

Argh. I'm in a similar boat. 2 days late, been poas for a few days all bfn. Just really want to know now. I've got sore boobs, occasional nausea, more cm than usual. I feel like af is on her way but if she's coming I wish she would just get on with it. I've got to the point of staring at pg tests almost seeing faint lines where there are quite clearly none there. I get an occasional really long cycle so this could be one of those, I really hope not! Fx we both know one way or another soon x

[bubalou]

Similar boat here.

6 days late - did a midday tests yesterday = BFN so literally just did one this morning and another BFN.

I'm not imagining symptoms - I am always 27/28 days on the dot. I have had heartburn which I only ever in my life had we pg with DS 6 years ago and my tummy feels weird like it did when I was last pregnant.

I do read about people not getting a positive until they are weeks late.

What tests did you all use? I used tesco own as that's all they had.

Good luck all

[Whatamuddleduck]

I've used waitrose own, clear blue normal and digi and frer, bit poas mad. It seems to have turned into a compulsion! It's the being really hungry all the time that's most weird- maybe it's psychosomatic but I feel really odd. I'm a bit worried that hoping for a bfp is causing af to stay away- I've been late due to stress before. That would really be a cruel twist- not being able to get on with ttc due to ttc stress- come on body!

[buddybull]

I just used the clearblue digital and that was it- was in the evening.
Still no af- my boobs stopped hurting last night but this morning they feel a bit tender again. My tummy feels like a washing machine right now - so hard to explain, I've not thrown up but I have that niggly nauseating feeling in my tummy. I have NEVER had a period 4 days late before. I didn't even ttc this month so I didn't get stressed or over analyse anything. Infact even at times when I have had super super stressful months I've always still been regular if not a day early. If this is my body messing me around then I am totally amazed at how well it has worked!

[bubalou]

I'm with you buddy.

We aren't even ttc at the moment. DS is 6 and we were going to try maybe next year.

We dtd on I think day 9 but I had one of those periods last month that kind of started and then stopped and started so maybe I was off with my days and thought we were 'safe' when in fact it was during my fertile phase.

Don't get me wrong I'm really happy if we are. I just HATE not knowing. I'm literally thinking about it every second.

Going into town in a bit to buy some more tests as I only got the tesco own ones before.

I'm not imagining symptoms. I have only ever had heartburn when pg with DS. I've had a dull achy headache for 5 days now and my boobs although aren't sore don't fit in my bra.

Also I HATE breakfast, have never eaten it until 2-3 hours after waking. I fell sick otherwise but I am waking up sicky and starving.

I keep going to the toilet expecting af but nothing!

[buddybull]

Hate the waitinf h

[buddybull]

Hate the waiting game * I'd totally given up on ttc tbh! Infact I'd just started a new job too lol. God knows what's going on with me right now, bd'd with oh this morning too and nothing. So weird as I've had on off af style feelings for days now. Thought for sure she'd of arrived. Usually I get that hot heavy backache and then I know instantly that she'll he here within an hour--- well that happened Friday and has been on and off since then. Gonna try to not symptom spot as I know how easy it is too but God some of these things you can't help but notice lol

[bubalou]

God I'm so fed up. Keep reading things about people getting false negatives when they are weeks late which makes me feel a little better.

I just feel like I'm going mad. I want to know!!!

Nobody can ever understand the frustration until they've done it so sending some positive thoughts to all my fellow waiters.

[Whatamuddleduck]

Still waiting, this sucks. Promised myself I won't poas until Friday morning. I'm attempting to hide my new loony ness from DP and he'll be home Friday evening so no poas for the weekend. Who knew ttc could have this effect! Mind you he's bound to notice the cbfm that arrived in the post today- my attempt at poas constructively.
Fx for us all to have answers soon x