I have, my partner couldn't wait to tell his parents we were so even though I wanted to keep it to myself I felt obligated then to tell my parents.
Some of my work colleagues I see outside of work as friends for meals and outings so I told them and seeing as I work in a hospital I was happy for others to know as if a patient comes on the ward who has a certain condition or had a type of scan I could say I don't want to get involved just incase as I'm near test days, etc.
But.
It's been 12 months now and I'm starting to get sympathetic looks. I think when we told family we kinda expected it to happen quicker than it has done as well. Work colleagues are fine as the ones who are friends outside of work can talk to me about it without needing to give me that weird sympathy (they're the same age and many are trying themselves or have babies and tried for a while), and others I just work with work in healthcare so understand a bit about issues and professionalism about them. But its family! Subtly being asked and knowing winks. Ahh I know they mean well but it makes me feel embarrassed.
I kinda feel like they're hoping for another baby in the family from me and they're sitting there waiting with big grins and it makes me want to run for the hills and start my own tribe.
Anyone know what I'm saying?
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Ladyboluna · 25/07/2014 20:39
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