BFP/AF due 16th Feb not hopeful!!

[babytinks89]

8dpo so i think anyway..... But had no symptoms at all, slight cramps over the last few days but that is all, preparing myself for the March bus, anyone feeling the same :(

[Mrsmorrison13]

Me waves

I'm 11dpo and feeling like af is round the corner

Nobody prepares you for how hard TTC actually is

[babytinks89]

Tell me about it mrsm!

Is this your first baby?

I mc in november after 10 weeks but wasnt trying to conceive then so was a shock, but we got used to the idea and desp want a baby now!!
So we tried in jan after first cycle after mc, i say we tried we barely did so this was my first proper month of tryingg opks and stuff got a positive opk on sunday last week dtd then but that was all around that day so not hopeful we done enough!

[Mrsmorrison13]

Yeah it's #1 month 6 now starting to get worried xx

[Mrsmorrison13]

Sorry tk hear of your mc too x big hugs x

[babytinks89]

Don't worry mrsm!
Thank you ??
It will happen for us!! We just have to be patient, it's so damn hard though!!

Have you had any symptoms?? Any of your months? Have you tried opks?

[Mrsmorrison13]

I have had all the symptoms lol but I've had two chemical pregnancies so that's been hard. I've been using opks for 4 months now ,I'm not sure we can do much more than we are xx

[babytinks89]

Aw sorry to hear that mrsm
What do they feel like? Must be horrible cause it still shows a bfp as well doesnt it? When do you find out and whats the process? Thats my main worry now after mc!

No you can't do anymore hun!
Just takes 1 wee sperm to get to the egg so dtd as much as you can!
I followed the smep but kissed couple days out, but might try that again..... With the opks, was going to try temping but as blonde as i am i cant figure it out lol!!

[Mrsmorrison13]

It's pretty weird to be honest both times I've hit a positive then the next day a negative then then you get a period but both mine have been completely paid free so strange ! So I don't get overly excited when I see a BFP now xx

[babytinks89]

Aw thats horrible hun :(
Hopefully you're next bfp stays a bfp!!

I just need to get another bfp and get past 10 weeks and my first scan and i'll be happy lol!

I've had no symptoms either which is making me even less hopeful :( so i just wish af would hurry up so me and dp can start again!!

[Mrsmorrison13]

Morning guys I'm out af arrived this morning

Good luck to the rest of you xx

[babytinks89]

Awww so sorry mrsm!!! Dont worry i think i may be joining you this time next week!! just think this time next month it will hopefully be a BFP! It has to be, i mean how many times do us girls have to try!???