To begin with I tried to be very relaxed and it will happen when it happens, during the first year of being semi aware of dates I tried to concentrate our efforts between the 9th day and the 14th. I believe I had one of these so called chemical pregnancies during this time. 5 months ago I used the ovulation sticks (which aren't easy to use) and getting that smiley face isn't easy ... Eventually I decided to keep testing until I got a smiley face rather than when the instructions recommend u test. This resulted in the smiley face appearing on the 18th day soooooo I thought ok well at least now I know that I ovulate a lot later than I thought. 3 months later and I'm still not pregnant but. But came on 6 days early and seemed to bleed a lot more. I do have a child who is 10 but am really struggling to stay sane .... The two week wait is torturous and gets worse everytime. And friends and family telling me to relax isn't any good ... I can relax if I fell pregnant. The not getting anywhere means everything I do revolves around trying. It consumes everything and in my every thought, I feel like a crazy a person lol
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