Hello everyone,
We are trying (very hard!) to conceive our first child.
Terribly mixed feelings - desperate to have our own little baby mixed with the guilt of bringing a little baby into the world at my age (41 ) but more so DH 54.
Both young in mind, fit and slim with no health issues and financially stable. We both long to provide a happy, safe and secure home for a little one but both feel guilty wanting this longed for baby as DH is 54.
Ridiculously, the country file presenter (julie xxx??) gave an interview recently where she discussed her joy at being pregnant at 41 and shared her wish for a second child now (age 42 I think) with her DP aged 54 .... and this gave my guilt a temporary reprieve!
Is anyone else in a similar position??? would love to hear from you
Emotionally wobbling tonight :(
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TTC at 41 with older DH aged 54 ... tinged with guilt - ANYONE else in the same position??
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chummy1 · 06/03/2013 22:50
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