Gah....timing I had a mmc back in December. Totally gutted as it would've been 'perfect' timing.
Now we've waited for hormones, emotions & bodies to settle. & I've been offered a fantastic job opportunity for 6 months' time :s totally rubbish timing - if I took it, I'd sacrifice a hefty whack of statutory maternity pay. Even if I conceived now, it would be a stupidly long time to ask them to wait for me. But to hold off for SMP would mean not even starting trying until 6 months after getting to them (ie a year from now) which feels like forever, especially to poor DH, & would mean a large age gap between my kids.
Timing sucks. Especially as my hormones are frantically telling me every month in my 'fertile period' to make a baby, my emotions are telling me to replace the one we lost. Sucky.
Thanks for listening. Any shared experiences / advice appreciated x
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BoyMeetsWorld · 02/03/2013 08:47
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