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PLEASE HELP!!!!conception confusion

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misso1989 · 07/02/2013 20:28

Hi I just found out I'm pregnant n I am very confused. I was taking norethisterone all the time for a few months then on the 23rd of dec I started to bleed n continued to do so till the 27th then started my pills again then on the 31st of december I stopped taking them n I stupidly had drunken unprotected sex on the 1st jan I then started to have a bleed on the 3rd like a period which is what usually happens when u stop taking them pills n I came off by the 4th I then started bleeding again on the 6th again like a period n I bled until the 9th I then had unprotected sex with someone else on the 19th of jan (someone I had decided to settle with) which was 14 days after the first day of what I would I would call my last period meaning the day I slept with him I was at my most fertile n took a test on the 25th jan 25 days after the first guy n it was negative I then took another test on the 3rd feb 14 days after sex with the second guy also meaning n it has come back positive!! Now what I need advice on is the liklihood of who the father is? Is 14 days to soon to get a positive reading? I also took a clearblue digital test that said conception was 2/3 weeks. Please help I'm so confused!!!!

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setayharas · 07/02/2013 20:45

Can't be much help here ( to be honest in confused lol) iv never taken this pill so dont understand how the bleed work etc.

but I wanted to say that 14days isn't to soon to test positive. With cycles you normally have a 14day wait between ovulation and your next period(which is when you most likely to test positive if you are)

As far as I no your pregnancy is dated from the day after your last menstral period which would be around 3 weeks ago.

I hope iv helped in some way!

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misso1989 · 07/02/2013 21:04

It has in a way its just the bleed that's confusing me n the fact that I took a test 25 days after the first person n it was neg when they say u can usually get a acurate result from 21 days

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setayharas · 07/02/2013 21:07

Maybe it was the second guy? That's why you didn't get a positive until later on?
I think once your further on a doctors scan is more exact than a test

Hope you get the answer you want. Have u told either guy? Will they be there for you?

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misso1989 · 07/02/2013 21:12

The second guy will I know that I just can't tell him until I know I'm supossed to hve a scan tomorrow I'm just worried it will be to soon to see anything at it?

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galwaygal · 07/02/2013 21:42

To warn you that early scans cannot accurately date a pregnancy. It will not be till your dating scan at 11-14 weeks that you will have a better idea of date of conception. Congratulations on your pregnancy.

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misso1989 · 07/02/2013 21:48

Thank u. I'm just hoping that if was the first guy they will at least be able to see the sack or something? I duno I have done nothing but read since I found out its driving me insane now

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