i have just taken a pregnancy test, well i took my first yeaterday but thought i would take another this morning!!!!both positive....the thing is i have no idea when i wouldhave conceived as it has been in the back of my mind for quite some time now! i have a 12month old son and my partner also has 3 older children, infact the oungest is the same age as me! please don't judge! My first regnancy wasn't planned but my partner knew i wasn't on the pill due to past illness....his attitude was if it happens it happens, bare in mind i had been told previously i would most probably never have children....anyway.....i had my last period around june/july time but as i was having extremely irregular bleeding, upto 3 times a month, the doc changed my pill from the mini pill to 'yasmin', similar to the combined pill....since taking this i havent actually had a period....at first i put it down to change of pill and was pretty relieved after more or less none stop bleeding since having my son...... looking back now though the signs of pregnancy have been there but as i am a very slim person i havent noticed, until now, i have started to gain weight but only around my abdomen, and i have extremely sore boobs......i thought i would do a test as i dont eat much anyway and i didnt want to cut down my food intake anymore just incase i was pregnant.....and it turns out that i am...... my other half, when we have spoken about this is the past, is adament he doesnt want anymore children and doesnt cope well around babies, he gets very stressed and this causes arguements.....i haven't told him yet and i plan to see doc and try and work out how far gone i am before telling him now.....can anyone tell me how the doc may work my dates out.....i couldn't be 4/5months preg without noticing could i? will they send me for a staing scan? i am over the moon but the worry of my partners reaction is really getting me down and he has already noticed a change in my mood over the last few months, even his brother has noticed it,oops........cana nyone help please? sorry for long essay i just have no one else to talk to....xxx
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sianilovesbeingamummy · 25/11/2012 08:23
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