DS4 (aged 14 months) had major surgery a week ago. I had to take DS5 (2 months) with me as he is breastfed so we were all squished into a cubicle. I wasn't allowed to leave DS5 at any point so had to take the buggy to the loo etc.
DS4 projectile vomited all over his cot in the night when I was feeding DS5. I couldn't sort him out one handed and didn't want to unlatch DS5 and wake everyone up when he started crying. So I buzzed for the nurse, feeling guilty. Nobody came so I buzzed again. I didn't want to leave DS4 but needs must so I went off to the nurses station where they were all sat doing paperwork. I asked for help and a nurse said she'd be there in a minute. I went back to DS4 and eventually 2 nurses came and cleaned him and his cot up. I helped the best I could with one hand.
I've always thought that nurses do the medical stuff for children in hospital and cleaning up my child's puke is my job. However my mum is horrified and said we should have been in a side room (which I think are reserved for children in isolation or children who are in hospital for months etc) with nurses feeding DS4, changing his nappy and doing all the things for him that I do at home. My mum used to be a nurse but hasn't worked on a children's ward since 1970ish when parents didn't stay overnight I don't think. Can somebody tell me I'm right .
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Is this normal in hospital?
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elliejjtiny · 25/08/2014 13:29
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