I'm 20 weeks pregnant and also have a 15mo DS. I had a bit of a miserable time in hospital last time (mostly afterwards) and due to this trauma have become fixated on the idea of a homebirth. Unfortunately DH is not so keen as last time I had epidural and ended up in theatre having ventouse delivery. He says what if I can't cope with pain again and need epi, or pushing doesn't do the job (like last time) and I need help?
I am convinced most of these things last time were down to the fact I was induced, and that as long as I go into natural labour I will be fine. But all his objections have now got me worried and I am starting to feel that its not such a good idea after all.
Anyone got any ideas as I'm feeling really awful about the idea of having no. 2 in hospital
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Homebirth - trying to decide whether to go for it!
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Piffy · 03/07/2007 22:13
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