DD was a pretty straightforward home water birth so planning the same for dc2 who us due in a couple of days.
Due to various family politics and dramas we don't want to ask our parents to have DD when the time comes and are thinking of keeping her at home. Obviously in an ideal world she'd be in bed and sleep through the whole thing but I'm fully aware that may well not happen!!
DD is 2.7 and gas watched a couple of OBEMs with me and understands there's a baby in mummy's tummy etc. My midwife said she's been at a few home births where the toddler is there and they've been fine.
Some friends recently says they needed their other children out so that they could focus on labour and not worry about them. I don't want it to be a nightmare for DH either!
DD's birth was also fairly fast (approx 5 hours from losing plug to first contractions to having her) so I'm worried this one will be quick too and there won't be much time to drop dd anywhere and get the pool sorted etc anyway so it would just be easier if she stays here.
Obviously if I need to go to hospital we'd call the parents to come look after dd or drop her off there.
I guess I'm after any experiences of having your dc present whilst in labour at home.
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Anyone had their toddler with them during a home birth?
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MATB1 · 16/07/2014 08:55
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