So, I think I have everything covered but am very concerned about childcare for my lo's (1 and 4 years old).
All my help is 2 hours or more away so given that I went from 0 to holding a baby in that time I'm alittle concerned that I'll have to take them with me. No option of a home birth (various reasons).
I am sure they've had a situation like this.
Obviously, I'm doing my best to minimise this but we are new to the area last week (don't know neighbours and there isn't anyone I could give them to). And the nurseries wont take lo's (various reasons).
Also, children rarely appear when they are scheduled so this one could arrive tomorrow or next month.
The best case senario would be that someone would meet me at the hospital and I'd pass the lo's onto them before being admitted but I cant guarantee that they'd make it.
What would happen if I turned up on the birthing ward with them and am in the final stage (fully dilated, etc)?
Will one of the nurses watch them and take me into another room or would they be beside me?
If someone managed to get there just in time would they hand over my lo's?
Do I have to make provisions for this in my 'birthing plan' such as passwords, etc so that they are given to the right people?
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ItsNearlyTime · 11/10/2013 21:02
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