We're hoping he'll sleep through the whole thing but obviously we need a plan incase it all happens in the daytime! At the moment the plan is for him to be around or DH to take him into the garden during the first stage of labour & for him to play in his cot for the 2nd/3rd stage. He's usually quite happy if left with enough books & checked on occasionally! Assuming it all happens the same as last time he'll only need to be in there for 30mins max.
I've been wondering about having him around for all of it though. He's only little so it's not likely he'll remember it & he's not a particularly sensitive child... He hit DH over the head with a tin the other day & laughed...! DH is concerned about him being disruptive or wound up more than the potential for upsetting him. My labour last time was only 8 hours & I was v calm throughout so I don't think I'm likely to scare him!
Has anyone had such a young child around during their sibling's birth? Any tips?!
(We won't have anyone else actually in the house but we do have several people we can call to take him at short notice if necessary!)
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19mo around during a homebirth
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Jojobump1986 · 02/05/2013 21:21
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