I wondered if anyone had any positive stories about their second births and recovery compared to their first.
I am 33 weeks pregnant and planning for a vbac. First time round I was induced due to pre-eclampsia, baby's heart rate dropped and ended up having a c-section at 10 cm dilated. This resulted in bad internal tearing, massive hemorrhage which necessitated a long stay in hospital and a number of blood transfusions. It was a long time before I was out and about with my little girl.
I was discouraged from breastfeeding for a number of reasons. Firstly due to drugs given to me, I had to stay lying down due to surgery for a while afterwards and the fact my iron levels were so low so my milk was horribly delayed. My DD was bottle-fed for the first week, after that I struggled terribly with establishing breastfeeding and ended up expressing for some weeks before my milk supply vanished. I found this really hard to deal with.
This time round I have been encouraged to go for a vbac provided I don't get pre-eclampsia and naturally go into labour.
Frankly I am shitting myself and having anxiety attacks about what can go wrong this time. I can't imagine having a successful vbac nor being able to breastfeed. My consultant seems to think I have a good chance at the vbac as all the issues last time were down to intervention.
Has anyone here had pre-eclampsia with their first but not their second?
Had a successful vbac?
Difficulty bfing their first but managed with their second?
So far this pregnancy has been totally different to my first and no sign of any high blood pressure but it just all seems to unlikely.
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Was your second different from your first? In what way? C-section/vbac and so on...
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Thingiebob · 14/03/2013 21:44
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