Hi, I'm 22weeks with ds2 and absolutely torn between my current options for labour.
I went to 41+3 with ds1, had a good labour; slow labour for about 24hrs before going into hospital at 5cms, progressed really well until 7cm then it all went downhill...due to a number of cock ups from the hospital, and 12 failed attempts at an epidural later, the increasing pain in labour turned out to be because ds was back to back& his head was in the wrong position meaning I couldn't birth naturally, despite reaching 10cms. After telling me all of this, they didn't decide on emcs until ds got distressed. Ds is now 19months and I'm still quite sensitive about birth.
So, because of previous emcs, I now have a number of choices for this labour, and I feel like every time I make my mind up, I end up changing my mind. After meeting with the consultant, my choices are;
- Elcs
- VBAC
- Induced VBAC on due date
- Trial of labour & then cs if no progression after a time set by myself
At the moment, I am swayed towards VBAC/ induced VBAC, but I just can't get my head around the 'what if I end up having to have another emcs?'.
I don't know anyone who has been in this situation before, none of my friends have children, and so I have no one to talk this through with.
Any suggestions/stories would be appreciated- I have 9 weeks until a decision needs to be made, and I want to make an informed choice.
Thanks x