Hi does anyone know where I can get advice from a midwife or hv other than my own.
Ds1 is 3. he was 11 days od. And I was induced. I had a third degree tear with him. He weighed 8lb 13 so not particular large.
Ds2 is 1. he was 2 days od and labour happened naturally. I had a second degree tear with him. He weighed 7lb 11.
Now I'm due in Feb and have the option of natural or c section. And although I am leaning towards natural I really really don't know what to do.
It took around 6 months for both to return to normal but bowel movements have never been the same although not life changing.
My consultant was no use at all just said she couldn't see a reason why I couldn't have a natural birth.
My midwife is wonderful and is the same one I had for all my pregnancies so she really does know my situation. But saying that all she can advise me to do is do my research and talk to others. As if she were in my situation she doesn't know what she would do.
I'm yet to find another mom who's had a 3rd and 2nd degree tear and is expecting again.
Just don't know where to go from here.
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where can I get advice from a midwife or hv other than my own.
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Jenny123G · 22/11/2012 13:00
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