I'm heartbroken to find out that my 5 year old daughter may have been bullying another girl in her class. She seems to pass nasty comments to even her closest friends sometimes with no thought to their feelings.That's all it was until last week when there was a more serious incident encouraged by an older girl. I am freindly with the little girl who was picked on's mum, and she is understandably furious and tells me the nasty comments have been going on for quite a while.
I have promised to resolved this but to be honest I don't really know where to start. I have done the usual things like taking away her toys and not letting her spend time with friends but I feel I need to do something else.
If this were an isolated incident it would be different, but the spitefullness has gone on for a couple of years. When I look back I'm not sure she has ever been too considerate of peoples feelings. And yet, if someone were to fall in the playground she would be the first to help. I always considered myself to be a good mum and my husband a good dad, but now I am left wondering what we are doing wrong to make her so desperately unhappy that she would act like this. At least thats what all the bullying websites are teling me the reason for the behaviour is.
Any advice would be appreciated as I feel like a failure that has had her heart ripped out.
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Worriedmum2 · 20/06/2010 00:26
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