Tom is five. He's a bright, happy, helpful little kid. He used to love going to school. He's in reception.
Jamie is in Tom's class. He has Autism, and has a special teacher to look after him and help him.
Jamie keeps attacking Tom. He scratches his eyes and makes him bleed. He pushes Tom in the cloakroom and bangs his head on the pegs. He punches him and kicks him. We've spoken to the teacher on multiple occasions, and they have promised to keep an eye open for it. Usually when they do, it calms down for a while.
Yesterday, I had to warn school that it was building up again - I told Tom's teacher that Jamie had been kicking and punching him again, and that on Friday, he scratched his face again. I was told that they'd keep a close eye on him.
Tonight, when I collect Tom from school, the teacher rushes over to tell me that Jamie has bitten Tom on the arm. It's a bad bite - not quite broken the skin, but badly bruised. Tom has asked me tonight if he can stay at home with Mummy and me because he doesn't want to go to school anymore, because Jamie is always having a go at him. I've told him that I will sort to out for him, but he doesn't think there's anything I can do - ad to be honest, I'm wondering what more I can do. The school don't seem to be taking to be seriously enough, and I don't know what steps I should take next.
I know they are both only little - but I can't let my son get attacked like this almost every day. What can I, should I, do?
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tomsdaddy · 25/05/2010 21:39
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