My dd is in yr6. She's having alot of problems atm with a girl in her year. She lives down the road from us and they became friendly in the summer hols last year.
I always had my reservations about this girl, but decided I should keep out it.
Over the last year all other friendships diminished. The girl was always blowing hot & cold with dd and sometimes lashing out. There always seemed to be excuses for this happening.
My dd tends to bottle things up and I found out a while ago that she had been kicked and punched by this girl at school (Another Mum told me her dd had seen it happening) Her legs were badly bruised.
I phoned the girls Mum who I'd always got on OK with, to be told her dd was covered in bruises and she'd been into the school about it! She had no idea there might be 2 sides!!
After talking to dd (and cross questioning her) it seems that dd had been trying to play with other girls and the girl wouldn't let her, tried to pull her away and kicked her etc when she resisted. She also turned the story around. When told the attack had been witnessed she said my dd and her friend (the witness) had been bulling her and her Mum believed it.
They have been told to keep away from each other. I took photos of the bruising into dd's teacher (as advised to my Mumsnetters)
Since then the girl is constantly trying to get dd into trouble, making up lies and playing the victim.
Nobody seems to be doing anything much and she is getting more and more devious.
My daughter came home today and said the girl had written a note in two styles of handwriting, trying to make it look like an exchange between the two of them. She briefly showed her the note, then said "I'm telling"
She's also now trying to come between the new friendships that dd is trying to establish, making up lies to try and turn people against dd.
This is all done very quietly and sneakily.
Why is nobody taking her aside and telling her to stop it. The school seem to think it's a friendship gone wrong and it'll blow over.
I don't know what to do. This girl is a poisonous little bitch and it's just seems to be getting worse.
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MeMudmagnet · 31/03/2010 17:15
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