Hello everyone.
Sorry for what may prove to be a long post, but I'd really welcome some advice.
Six months ago I moved my dd to a small village school with only five other girls in the class. This was due to an unresolved exclusion bullying problem which had escalated to some physical bullying. This situation wrecked dd's confidence and the new school were aware of this and gae her a warm welcome.
On starting at school we were particularly welcomed by one parent and her daughter.They were aware of why my daughter had changed schools. As we knew no-one there we were extremely grateful.
Now, it appears that five of the girls (including dd) no longer are happy in school as this one girl refuses to play with them, unless they play only her games and refuses to talk to them if they disagree with her (no matter how politely). She then tells the teacher and the year six pupils that they are being mean to her and bullying her. Or threatens to until they do what she wants. She also physically pushes around some of the smaller ones. I had to help one girl who was very upset explain to her mum why she felt so unhappy.
The class teacher constantly tells off the five girls and threatens them with sanctions. My daughter is distressed and ashamed to think the teacher might think she and others are bullies.
Other mothers have now explained that there have been intermittent problems, in the same vein,with this girl since nursery.
I would approach her mum discreetly and try to resolve this matter jointly, but she blanks me and crosses the road away from me now.
Has anyone any idea how this situation can be resolved? I'd be most grateful for help, as dd's confidence is taking a huge dive again.
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coopersgirl · 16/03/2010 23:22
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