Please can anyone help. My 9 year old son feels bullied in school but the teaching staff tell a very different story. Kids can be cruel and they often are where my son is concerned. The trouble is he has a tendency to retaliate and it is then him who gets into trouble rather than the bully. In fact in many instances where there has been a fight, my son is punished more severely than the other children involved. I have urged him not to retaliate but to tell the teacher when he is upset by another child but he says when he reports an incident to the teacher they tell him off for telling tales rather then dealing with the issue. I have been into school to discuss the issue with the head teacher, but his response was to tell my son that "You are so much bigger than the other children in your class you must look very scary to them" He is very tall but this was not the response I was hoping for. He isn't the best behaved little boy in school and because of this he seems to have got a bad name for himself which he cannot shake, because of this whenever something happens, the teachers assume it is him who is in the wrong. I no longer know who to believe but have to say I am inclined to believe my son over his teachers and I just don't know where to go next. Every time I raise an issue in school it seems that the teachers are doing everything they can to placate me rather than finding a way to help my son. I'm desperate to make school days happy days but am beginning to feel that the teachers are the perpetrators of the bullying - one day when he was sent to another class, the teacher told the rest of the class "now he's out the way we can have some fun" He feels he is treated unfairly by staff and I'm inclined to agree. I don't know how to help him so any advice would be great.
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