so worried about my 4 years old !! Please advice

[preciousmum]

Hi everyone.
My son is 4 and half.He's very kind ,gentel boy.he likes to chair things...
When we are at playgroups,i noticed if a boy or a girl took e way a toy from him ,he would try to get it back,but if he didn't managed he would let it go,and carried on playing.Also wen we are playing at home and i try to play a bit tough with him,he wouldn't like it.He likes gentel play.
I am worried that when he starts school next September,boys will take advantage of him,or they will pick on him.Please any advice will be appreciated ??

PC : He's very confident child,he express him self....I have no other concern other than what i have mentioned.
Many thanks.

[daytoday]

He sounds lovely! He sounds mature and chilled out. Don't try to 'toughen him up'. Applaud yourself on the back for having such a poppet and let him be who he is.

Why would he be picked on? Kids love playing with other nice, fun kids.

Generally, most kids in reception are all very nervous and unsure about starting school and desperate the have fun and make new friends. I'm sure you're boy will be loved by the teachers and the other kids.

[preciousmum]

Hi daytoday.Thank you so much for getting back to my message so quick,Am feeling relieved a bit.As i was in a such a dilemma.

You were right he's very chilled out and mature for his age .And he's very loved by all the stuff in nursery ,he's very popular.Once again thanks

[ihatetinselbob]

My little boy is just the same.
He loves school and has had no problems, he has a lovely group of little friends and I couldn't be more happier or proud of him.
your little boy sounds lovely the way he is don't try and change him

[preciousmum]

Thanks you so much ihatetinselbob for the advice.This mums net is fantastic

[giveitago]

He should be OK - my lo also walks away from trouble - not a bad skill to have tbh - just hope he's stays like this.