My son is 5yrs old and usually such a happy little boy he is very popular at school and LOVES going to school- he even wants to go in the holidays!
He has mentioned a few times of different kids hitting him at school at playtime/lunchtime, I try and do the right thing by telling him not to retaliate(sp?) and tell a teacher. He complained of two kids who hit him yesterday a boy and a girl, I asked did he tell a teacher and he said yes so I pretty much left it at that.
This morning he was his usual self getting ready, going to school & then all of a sudden in the playground he came running up to me crying asking me to take him home, he didnt want to be at school I asked why and he said he didnt want anyone to hit him again. I said he had to go then he started saying he felt ill and had a sore throat and wanted to go home (im certain this was just to try and get me to take him home). I felt so upset& sorry for him I never realised he felt this way. He was the last through the doors -hes usually the 1st.
I spoke to the teacher she said she was on playtime duty and didnt see anything and said that it wasnt like one of the kids I mentioned to hit another kid. I agree, but I have also been present when his mum told him if a child hits him then hit them back. Also another boy I mentioned is know by teachers and parents for bullying at the school.
She just didnt seem overly bothered TBH even though she said it was completely out of character for my son to behave the way he did this morning.
Im not saying my son is completely innocent or didnt start an arguement, etc as im only getting his side of the story, hes no angel but he is not a horrible/nasty boy usually quite gentle.
Im just not sure if I should of pushed the teacher harder to do something or am making something out of nothing. Ive never been in this situation before and am just so upset that my son has reacted the way he did, I never thought it was that bad. I thought it was Just kids being kids I guess.
Anyone have any advice please?
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mel1981 · 15/01/2009 11:49
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