It's a long story but will try to be brief.
For a couple of years, my dd (aged 7) has come out of school every now and then really worried because she says a girl in her class is going to tell the head about her or is going to send her dad round to speak to dh. When I've asked why she says this other girl has made something up about her. So I've told her to ignore her and if she hasn't done anything wrong then she's got nothing to worry about.
Things came to a head a couple of weeks ago when there was a huge misunderstanding at school (dd was definitely in the right because I asked them to investigate) where this other girl did get the head to talk to my dd who was obviously really upset over it.
I suggested it would be best not to be friends or play with this girl anymore as she was making things up about her.
Last week the other girl asked to join in a game with dd and her friends but didn't like it when she was given a particular role to play so left crying. My dd was actually quite worried about this so came home and wrote a lovely letter to her saying she was sorry for being mean and could they still be friends. She also addressed it to her mum as the girl always threatens dd with her parents.
Last night we had a reply that was obviously written by the mum that very cleverly accused her of being the bully without actually stating it! It went on and on and said she was unhappy and didn't want to go to school, all perfectly typed with only 1 spelling mistake.
Now this has made me wonder whether to involve the school as I'm not sure what's going on. I'm having some issues with this mother anyway on a separate matter which makes me think she's not very forgiving and makes mountains out of molehills.
What would you think or do about this?
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not sure if dd is being bullied, is the bully or whether to ignore this....
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canofworms · 22/10/2008 13:10
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