Not exactly bullying but...
Ds (4.9) just started Reception. The R class joins the big school playground at lunchtime. A 'big' boy was prodding him with a tiny (McD's) Star Wars light sabre the other lunchtime so Ds told a dinner lady. Since then this boy follows ds pointing and laughing and getting other bigger children to join in. So ds spends a lonely lunchtime trying to trail the dinner lady so they won't 'get' him.
He doesn't play with the other infants - too scared to be away from a grown up, he says - but I also think he's finding it hard to join in with others and make friends.
How should I tackle this. Don't want to get a reputation for being overly anxious, but I am thinking of
- telling the Reception teacher so she can get the dinner lady (or whatever they're called these days) to look out for him, and
- Try and manufacture encourage a friendship with someone in his class to play with.
Is this a way to go?? Do teachers do this kind of thing? Or am I over reacting and should just let DS get on with it (he seems to be happy enough at school apart from this)? Help.