And I feel terrible for not intervening earlier.
Dd is in Year 6 so not long left at primary. There is a boy in her class who seems to take delight in mocking her, making nasty and belittling comments, laughing at the way she runs and so on. This probably happens about 2 or 3 times a week and has been going on a long time.
I can see how this is affecting dd and however many times you can reassure her that he's a nasty boy and his comments don't count for anything, I can see her confidence and self esteem being eroded
The immediate problem is their residential trip which starts tomorrow. Dd and this boy are in the same group and she's dreading it. She made a last minute decision to go on the trip and I'm proud of her for doing that but any comments from this boy will just crush her. Apparently the class teacher has said there won't be moving between groups beforehand but if when they get there things aren't working, he might move people then. But I'm going to go in tomorrow morning and ask for dd to change groups. Dd is very close to pulling out of the trip. I'm worried about it as parents can't contact their child so I won't know if she's having a terrible time.
On a more general note, I want to put in a formal complaint about the bullying. So I assume a letter to the class teacher or the head? I have only mentioned things casually to the class teacher in the past. But the head has told me that there have been problems with this boy before. Do I ask about the history and what was done then and what they plan to do now?
Of course the other option will be to pull her out and home ed her until the end of the year. Dh is reluctant to do this as he thinks it gives her the wrong message, ie run away from your problems. Also dd would miss all the fun stuff of the final term.
I'm an easy parent and don't generally complain to the school about minor matters but something has changed in me and I am now extremely angry. I just want to protect my child from further upset, what's the best way to do this?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find advice from others who have experienced school or workplace bullying on our Bulllying forum.
Bullying
I've come to the horrible realisation that dd is being bullied, please help
38 replies
Dancergirl · 30/03/2014 07:21
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.