Is this seriouse or am i over reacting

(5 Posts)
cheryleepink81 Thu 12-Dec-13 21:21:26

hi my daughter is in year 1 shes been friends with the same boy since nursery, hes always been boisterous (the complete opposite to my daughter) but she had always seemed happy with their friendship!

Last week she came home from school and said he was making her show him her private parts and she knew it was wrong she was worried about telling me incase i was cross with her :-( I had noticed he could be mean to her and a bit rough and suggested she try and find friends that were nice to her but she seems to have excepted how he is and makes excuses for him!

I had a meeting with the teacher they seemed to take it seriously there not allowed to go to the bathroom at the same time and they were going to help my daughter make some new friends in class and have told her that she must telk them if it happens again.

Today while she was getting dressed after pe he has come over to her and asked her to show him again she said no and she would show him tomorrow so he would leave her alone, she said she didn't tell the teacher because she dosnt want him to get in trouble
Help and advice please!!!

You have to tell the teacher if she won't. Ask them for an update on how she is making new friends in class too.

cheryleepink81 Thu 12-Dec-13 21:50:17

Thank you BeerTricksPotter Im going to give the teacher a note in the morning

Piggy456 Sun 26-Jan-14 19:53:14

I don't think your over reacting, but the boy may need help too.

As i just don't understand where the boy gets his ideas from ?

Of course you need to see to the welfare of your own child first, but the root of the problem maybe why the boy is behaving the way he is ?

starlight1234 Sun 26-Jan-14 19:57:44

Yes speak to the teacher... This is a safeguarding issue...

Look up the pants campaign by the Nspcc it may be helpful for helping to explain to your DD

Join the discussion

Join the discussion

Registering is free, easy, and means you can join in the discussion, get discounts, win prizes and lots more.

Register now