Hi I am new to all this but i really need some advise! I have two daughters a teenager and a 9 yearold who are both being bullied in school. my 9 year old has allowed me to go into school to discuss with her teachers, which i have done and we are waiting for them to form a plan of action, but I have to say so far they have been great and they have witnessed the girl doing it first hand now (the girl didnt know the teacher was watching) and she delt with the situation well.
My 14 year old does not want me to get involved as she says it just makes things worse! so i am trying to give her stratagies to cope with it and i make sure that sh talks to me alot as once you have spoken about it sometimes it doesnt seem so bad.
My problem is i dont know how to cope with both girls crying on me and staying strong, I dont have any friends who i can talk to about this as they are mostly parents from the school and i am scared that they will gossip and it will get back to the children, thefore making my eldest daughter having to deal with them knowing.
I cant talk to my parents either as the last time my youngest was going through a hard time, my mum told me that is was my fault as i didnt stand up for her and i was a rubbish mum, maybe she has a point!
Can anyone help me with any coping stratagies for me i have looked on line but there doesnt seem much out there.
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How do i cope with both daughters being bullied?
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maisyleigh2004 · 24/09/2013 15:47
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