Help! I am at my wits end and would really appreciate any advice on how to deal with this.
My DD is year 8 and is being bullied by her 'friend'. This girl moved into our village about 10 months ago and her and my DD made friends and have been fairly close (sleepovers, outings etc), to the point where i now give her a lift to school every morning to help her mum out who has two smaller children at schools in the opposite direction.
Its all been fine up until the last three months when they started to go into town on the bus. A couple of times this girl 'forgot' to bring extra money to buy lunch and my DD kindly bought it for her. This has now become a regular occurence (last week it was every day) at school too, in fact she now doesn't even ask, just puts what she wants with my daughters things and expects her to pay. I have asked my daughter to just tell her no, but she tells me this girl does it in such a way as to make it very hard for her to do this.
I'm not sure this girl would even realise she was being a bullly (is bullying what this is?).
Alongside this is a little bit of teasing and some isolating her from her other friends by making a fuss if she wants to spend lunchtimes with them instead of her.
I have tried restricting the amount of money my daughter has each day, but today she even asked another friend to lend my daughter 20p so she could still buy her lunch! Unbelievable! She brings a packed lunch, so it's not as though she wouldn't have anthing to eat all day if my daughter refused to pay.
As you would expect my daughter doesn't want me to talk to anyone in case it makes things worse. :-(
Any thoughts?
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JossyJo · 21/05/2013 20:39
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