Hello.
Firstly, I was reading some of the other bullying threads and all of the children mentioned were younger than my dd so I am not sure whether this is in the right place. Also, I'm not sure if it is bullying but hoping the wonders of MN can guide me. Bit of background information.
DD is in year 7 and settled in fine. About a third of the year and her form are from her old school and so she has lots of friends. At the beginning of the year, all the girls kind of hung out together. Then they started splitting off into groups. DD had a small group but hung out with everyone. Then this other girl began to hang out with DD and her group. They let her hang out with them at first, as they weren't mean, but the girl became really clingy. I mean like not leaving them at all every lunch, joining every club they attended and inviting herself to join their groups in lessons.
This has been going on all year since about November. The girl has become more and more clingy and they cannot get rid of her. Another group of girls that DD is really friendly with also had the same problem as they hung out a lot, but then they told the girl to go away because they were fed up of her. One of the girls in that group has been quite mean to the girl clinging on to DD and DD feels this is not right, but can feel the girl's anger and despair. This meant she hung on to dd even more.
DD is really fed up of this and I feel really sorry for her. Apparently the children felt the same at the girl's old school. DD is worried because the trip to Germany is coming up soon and DD and her friends do not want to go on the coach with this girl or share a room but they feel that they might end up so because the other girls are already paired up.
I asked DD why they did not like this girl hanging out with them and she said because they have completely different personalities and she likes completely different things.
DD wants to tell the girl that they don't want to be with her in a kind way and not be mean because DD does not want to be a bully. The girl is very thick skinned and doesn't get hints. I can tell DD really dislikes her and I feel the need to do something to help her. Apparently today the girl listed DD and her close friends as 3 of her 5 best friends at the school.
Any ideas for what she can do? I don't really want to speak to the staff because I am not sure they will listen to me for such little things. Anyone been through this? Thank you in advance. Feel really sad that DD is not looking forward to trip to Germany.
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