She is 11. Last year it was a former friend picking on her and turning others against her. Now it's the King Bee of the class rallying the boys to pick on her.
He and one other boy in particular are delighting in making her daily life a misery- pushing her about, stamping on her feet in line for assembly, saying she is shit at drawing (one thing she loves to do), trying to crush her toes with chair feet when she has to pass their table in class, calling her ugly, waiting for her when she goes to the support room for extra reading help and generally mocking/pushing/winding her up.
She is not very academic and struggles with a lot of schoolwork- when she puts her hand up to ask for clarification they groan theatrically and make her feel like shit. Her self esteem is terrible anyway; we are struggling to find something she is good at that will improve how she feels about herself. She is angry and rude at home a lot as a result of this IMO.
This King Bee is a turd, frankly. He is one of those 'popular' boys who is a nightmare, because he plays the drums very well and has appeared in the local paper he seems to hold himself in tremendously high regard. I have heard nothing but ghastly reports about him and his attitude- the terror of not being in his favour means the other boys dance to his tune.
I don't know how to handle this apart from calling school tomorrow and speaking to her teacher/the Head. The Head is very approachable- he will probably insist I go in to speak to him- but her teacher is very young (brand new) and I'm concerned he doesn't have the authority to rein this in. And I have no ideas at all for improving DD's self esteem :( She is awkward, often misreads social situations and can be emotionally immature/argumentative. Not to mention the rock hard facade of 'everything's fine' that even I have great trouble getting through. Her fingernails are chewed down to stumps :(
Not sure what I'm asking really, apart from ideas to help me not go and get medieval on Little Drummer Boy's face
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peeriebear · 13/11/2012 21:26
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