DS has mixed years in his school: Y3/Y4 and Y5/Y6. In the later part of Y3 he was consistently picked on by a Y4 boy. Kicking him in class, tripping him up in the playground, name calling etc. We talked to DS about it, and he handled it ok and tried to rise about it all.
In Y4 the lad was no longer in DSs class but would still carry out the kicks and trips and name calling but this time solely in the playground. Things came to a head, I spoke to the teacher and she 'had a word' with the lad. The behaviours went on sporadically and my DS reported to teacher when they happened. Until one day the lad and my DS were pulled in the HTs office and told that they should sort things out by keeping away from each other. Things have died down and DS hasn't mentioned this lad bothering him for a good term now. I had a casual chat with DSs teacher earlier this term and I said that I didn't want DS to be in that boys class again.
The new class lists have been issued and I just found out that DS is in this boys class again. I'm not at all happy about it and spoke to his teacher that day to say so. How the hell are they supposed to avoid each other when they are in the same class again!?
I feel that it's partly my fault for not putting my wishes in writing earlier this term. But then I feel that the teacher should have at least considered the boys' past relationship and mentioned to the HT or let me know that it was a possibility they would be together again.
I've been told that DS can't be put in another class as they are all up to 32 children. So basically DS has to put up with it. And yet, there are new children starting in September in his year who know no one at the school, so what difference does it make which class they go into?
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BogeyNights · 17/07/2012 19:21
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