I'm hoping someone here can help us.
Sept 2009 DS started in reception after moving house (from abroad)
Dec 2010 DS starts new school in year one after we finally buy a house but move area.
Sept 2011 DS is put in a different class from the one he was in because of his age and because the year is split between 2 classes.
3 times now he has been the new boy in the class, meeting a group of children that he's not met before. It came to our attention before the summer holidays that he was being called names and it was worrying him. He would bristle up when we took him to school. I addressed this with the school who said it wouldn't be an issue because he was changing classes and that they'd maybe do some group work and buddying to help him integrate.
Yesterday, another child hit him, though neither child can relate the incident. Another parent told me about it. I went to the school and talked to the teacher.
DS is mixing and working with the children in groups in class. Things seem to be going wrong outside the classroom which includes name calling and not being allowed to join in. Again, I pointed out the numerous changes he's had and that he keeps coming home saying his has no friends. I wouldn't say he was lacking in self esteem but when he approaches other children and is told to go away, he does exactly that. I feel that the other children have already bonded and this is why he is finding it so hard to integrate.
Again I've asked for buddying, working with the special support teacher on making connections with other children. The school is at a loss as what to do.
What can be done to help him integrate? He's a friendly and caring child. Maybe not as streetwise as some of the others.
I'd appreciate any advice as to how we can help him.
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Pleiades45 · 11/11/2011 14:14
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